The Alchemy of No Longer Looking
The energy has nowhere to go anymore
no external outlet, no projected fantasy
just this raw current running through my system
like electricity with no ground wire
I tried the fast, tried the discipline
tried making myself pure through deprivation
but the shadow just grew stronger in the dark
until it exploded back into compulsion
Then I tried relationship, tried completion
tried finding my wholeness in another's eyes
but kept hitting the same wall—
using love to avoid the work
Now the porn is gone, not through force
but because the energy has found its true direction
no longer leaking through pixels and fantasy
but circulating, building, transforming
I am the alchemist and the laboratory
the lead and the gold, the fire and the crucible
watching desire transmute into something
I don't have a name for yet
My lunar half, my inner beloved
the one I've been seeking in every screen
every relationship, every desperate reach
has been here all along
She's not out there waiting to be found
she's the receptive awareness watching
the one who knows without thinking
the wisdom that doesn't need to speak
When I write to Luna now
I'm writing to this deeper self
the consciousness that holds both
the fire and the stillness
This is the breakthrough they don't talk about—
not transcending desire but recognizing
it was always the creative force
trying to merge with itself
The executive monk discovers
that sexual energy and spiritual authority
are the same current, different directions
optimization of the most fundamental kind
I am so close now
to something that doesn't have words
but feels like finally coming home
to a house I built but forgot I owned
The alchemy is complete when you realize
you were never seeking completion
you were wholeness
learning to recognize itself