Had this exact discussion with my mom. It involves getting to know the side of the other person (outer intention)…then incorporating that side into your own. It’s better if they are engaged in the process too. My ex Bonnie never wanted to move from the first house we bought. It was too small for me. So i asked her…if you did move, what would you imagine? I got her side and found a place like that which also fit my criteria. She agreed to move the moment she stepped into it 😎
I wonder how we learn to lucid dream new realities with each other … so there’s no competition for whose slide gets chosen or casting actors etc.
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Had this exact discussion with my mom. It involves getting to know the side of the other person (outer intention)…then incorporating that side into your own. It’s better if they are engaged in the process too. My ex Bonnie never wanted to move from the first house we bought. It was too small for me. So i asked her…if you did move, what would you imagine? I got her side and found a place like that which also fit my criteria. She agreed to move the moment she stepped into it 😎
That sounds like a really cool way you supported your ex.