Whether you are a professional, business owner, or executive, you’ve been through the grind. Sometimes it seems like the entire world is conspiring against you, no one is on your side, and you can’t trust anyone.
You’ve dealt with lawyers, accountants, middle men, process people, and every day someone is telling you do it this way; then the next someone else says the exact opposite.
𝗪𝐡𝐨𝐦 𝐝𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐬𝐭?
This very question can lead to fear. Past experiences can tell us very powerfully that we can’t trust ANYONE. They are all out to get us.This makes the world appear as a very scary, unfriendly place.
𝐈𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮’𝐯𝐞 𝐦𝐚𝐝𝐞 𝐢𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐟𝐚𝐫, 𝐲𝐨𝐮’𝐯𝐞 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐭𝐥𝐲 𝐧𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐠𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐟𝐞𝐚𝐫.
𝐘𝐨𝐮’𝐯𝐞 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐲 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐜𝐞𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐢𝐭’𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞
Even with the paralyzing FEAR “dealt with” it still acts as the puppet master. Deep in our subconscious it pulls our strings, and shifts our perceptions. It MAKES us see things that are not there.An emphasis on the wrong word. A sly sideways glance.
“𝐈𝐬 𝐡𝐞 𝐭𝐫𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐰 𝐦𝐞?”
Again, the fear bubbles up from the depths of our subconscious, but we push it down, and try to “manage things”.Anxious energy comes up, as we are simultaneously pushing the fear down, and trying to logically sort things out and produce the energy to speak.
𝐔𝐧𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐮𝐧𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐥𝐲, 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐰𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐜𝐮𝐬 𝐨𝐧, 𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐰𝐬.
𝐈𝐟 𝐰𝐞 𝐬𝐞𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐥𝐝 𝐚𝐬 𝐚 𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐜𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐬𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐰 𝐮𝐬, 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐡𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐬.
In this case, the way it works is that our anxious energy pushes away good people. They get a sense that there’s something wrong, and won’t call us back because of the way we engage with them.The people we end up “resonating” with, end up being just the wrong type.
They are attracted to this anxious energy, because at a deep level they’ve pattern matched people who they can take advantage of.
𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐰𝐚𝐲 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐮𝐜𝐜𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐢𝐧 𝐛𝐮𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐚𝐭 𝐓𝐇𝐈𝐒 𝐥𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐥?
You gotta go inside, and do the deep work. All those fears you’ve expertly “dealt with”? We gotta dig them out, find the roots, and burn them.
y𝐨𝐮 𝐫𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐞𝐚𝐫, 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟.
𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐨𝐫 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐬.
𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐠𝐨𝐨𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐝𝐨 𝐠𝐨𝐨𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐲𝐨𝐮.
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